Weddings are times for celebrations for the entire family. There is something truly beautiful about the symbolic traditions used in wedding ceremonies the world over. No, it is not all about tasting the food, preparing the guest list, ordering the wedding cake, and gathering the family together. The solemnization of two hearts can be done in a unique, classy, and wholehearted way.
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Interesting traditions that are followed at a Greek wedding
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- Blessing of the wedding rings: The priest blesses the wedding rings during the ceremony. Only after the rings have been blessed can they be worn. Couples first exchange engagement rings before the wedding, which also have to be blessed in the same way. Sometimes, the engagement ring — which is worn on the left ring finger — is the same ring used for the wedding too. The couple shifts their engagement bands, to their right ring finger, to make it their official wedding bands. Hence, engagement ceremonies, and passing of rings are considered a very important and ceremonious occasion in Greek culture, even today!
- Making the bed: This happens to be one of the most well-known, and popularly followed Greek tradition. Friends and family of the groom and bride gather at the couple’s home to help with the arrangements of the bed. The bride has to be present at the scene, while the groom needs to steer clearly out of sight. But, these days, you can find the groom crashing the party! The bachelorette’s buddies surround the bed, and decorate it with lovely petals of flowers like red roses; other members of the family join in to fling rice, coins and money for good luck, on the bed. This tradition, they say, blesses the couple with happiness, wealth and good luck. It ends with a child being rolled all over the bed, to bless the couple with fertility.
- Crowning of the bride and groom: The crowns that are used are called the ‘Stefana’. The crowning ceremony is one of the key features of a traditional Greek wedding. The priest carries both the crowns, and he blesses the couple in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. After his blessings, he places the crowns on their heads respectively. The groom and bride then proceed to exchange their crown, placing it on the other’s head. This exchange is to be performed thrice, which then officially seals their bond. It symbolizes glory and honour bestowed upon them by God. These crowns are also a symbol of martyrdom, as every marriage involves giving up of the self for both people to create a life in unison.
- The ceremonial walk or stroll: The groom and bride are then walked around the altar to denote their bond, and is considered an expression of love and joy. They have to walk three times around it, which indicates a ceremonial kind of dance. Three important hymns are sung, while they are led around. The first song signifies joy, the second of self-sacrifice, and the third is for glorifying the Holy Trinity. The altar that they walk around, holds the holy cross and the holy gospel. After completing each circle, the couple is asked to kiss the cross held up for them by the priest. The cross represents suffering (that is to be endured in unison through the ups and downs of life), and the gospel indicates education (which is to be imparted to their future offspring).
If you are attending a Greek wedding for the first time, you are sure to be floored by their customs and rituals. Take pictures, and cherish the moment, because it is considered an important privilege to be a part of them.